Baby week by week · 18–21 months · 20–21 months: determined learner

Your baby at 85 weeks

From Brittany Ryan, Founder and Mom of Two

What’s happening at about 19 months

Trial and error is central now. Your toddler may persist, ask for help, become frustrated and try again—all within a few minutes. Notice connection this week rather than looking for a performance.

What’s ahead

Longer concentration and more flexible problem solving may develop. Keep following your child's cues and make room for repetition.

A memory to keep this week

A problem they tried more than once

Safety first

Use close adult supervision. Check every item for choking, strangulation, tip-over, water and fall hazards. Keep button batteries, magnets, medicines and household chemicals locked away.

In the app this week

Try this together: Try another way, plus this week's memory prompts, a private journal and your Journey, quick logs for firsts like tried another way and solved a problem. One simple idea at a time, never 47.

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Guided by: CDC milestones + AAP (HealthyChildren.org) + CPSC, written in Brittany's words.

Every pregnancy and every baby is different. This is general, educational information, not medical advice. If something worries you, check with your provider or pediatrician.

Meet our founder

Brittany Ryan

Founder and Mom of Two

Brittany is a mom of two with a background in early childhood development. Little by Little Together began with a beautiful, blank baby book. Like so many parents, she bought baby books with every intention of filling them; instead, they sat in a closet while life kept moving. So she built a personal assistant for parenthood that tells you what matters right now, offers one simple idea at a time, and keeps your story safe.

“You don’t have to remember everything at once. Little by little, there is a story worth keeping.”

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